Thursday, 9 October 2014

Difference between spirit and ghost

Many people are not sure about what is the difference between spirit and ghost?Some are confused if there is any difference at all?At some point they are the same but they are not.Let me explain it why.

Spirits are people who have passed and crossed over into the light.Lot of mediums use terms like 'crossing over into the light', which means that when a person dies, they pass quickly through the passage of light into the spirit world.Once they passed into the spirit world and through the light, they become 'spirits' .The Light is merely the doorway to the spirit realm or guides the deceased into the afterlife. There are spirits who come back to visit their family they left behind but they are based in the spirit world, on a constant basis.Spirits in the spirit world, are going through a life review learning process after that they are able to come and go between the physical world and Afterlife.

Ok, so now the meaning of  ghosts.As I said above they are the same at some point and that is that ghosts are deceased people too.The difference is that when the person dies, they  choose not to cross over, it can be many reason why not. It is usually because they dont realise they are dead, they might need help to cross over, or it is because the person is confused, and doesn't realise the light is for them to go into. It might be the case of guilt or traumatic death is the cause choosing not to cross over. So in this case the ghost "is" stuck between the physical world and Afterlife.

Tuesday, 13 May 2014

Forgiveness

Forgiveness...why is it important and how can it affect you?
Forgiveness means "The mental, or spiritual process of ceasing to feel resentment, indignation or anger against another person for a perceived offense, a difference or mistake, or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution." by Wikipedia.

To forgive someone doesn't mean we are approving, or accepting what someone else did.
Forgivness is about setting yourselve free, that means you are releasing the past so it does not have any control over your feelings or thoughts.

So when you forgive others you can enjoy the benefits of it.There are many reasons to forgive and will help you see why you should do it:

  • Unforgiveness stands by you and God.God has forgiven for all of us as sees us as righteous.So if God can forgive us for all the awful things we have done, then you can do that too.
  • Holding onto negative and hurtful thoughts, and bitterness can affect your health and also it will not allow you to move on and open new things in life.
  • To forgive someone is only a benefit for you, not for the person you are forgiving.If you feel like a victim, you are carrying a heavy burden.Once you put it down, just simply walk away free.
  • If you decide to carry this burden, anger, and hurt for many years, it will not take you further and as mentioned above will not open new doors for you.On the other hand, it can affect your health and causes problems.
  • Forgiveness helps us grow.Once forgiveness is done, you will feel easier and will have more time for positive thoughts in your life.
  • Resentment and bitterness can cause serious illnesses....
  • Forgiveness can lead to have a healthier relationships, have a  greater spiritual and psychological well being, less anxiety and stress, fewer symptoms of depression...
How to forgive....
  • Consider the value of forgiveness and the importance of it in your life
  • Reflect on the facts of the situation, how it affected you and your health, how you reacted to it...
  • When you are ready to forgive to the person who hurt you, choose to forgive...
  • After that move away from being a victim,release the control and the power that the person who offended and hurt you and what this has caused in your life
The bottomline is that in order to live a less stressful and healthier life, you have to learn to forgive others.It improves your spiritual, mental, psyhical and emotional life.